Isaiah 29:13 Therefore the Lord said: “Inasmuch as these people draw near with their mouths And honour Me with their lips, But have removed their hearts far from Me, And their fear toward Me is taught by the commandment of men,
Honouring God means a whole lot more than just telling others you love God or just going to church faithfully or even giving all your money to the poor and needy.
Honouring God is all about being in a proper and meaningful relationship with God.
God wants us to be honest with ourselves and with Him. He knows our thoughts and our feelings so pretending with anything else is only fooling ourselves.