James 3:16 For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there.
Spending too much time comparing yourself to others will lead to jealousy and to ill feeling about yourself.
In modern society we are often told to look after ourselves rather than the people around us so we can get the best from life; but what does that lead to?
If Christ tells us to look out for those around us and to love them as we love ourselves, and the world is telling us to love ourselves first and foremost, where do we go?
Listening to God will help you to focus on the people around you and allow you to avoid many ill feelings.