Acts 10:45 And those of the circumcision who believed were astonished, as many as came with Peter, because the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out on the Gentiles also.
It is God’s decision as to whom He gives the Holy Spirit to; not ours. We need to be willing to take the gospel out to everyone we meet and not just those we choose.
God will then see what is in their hearts and will bless who He wants to bless.
I can imagine how the Jews felt at the time knowing God had chosen them and yet now was giving others the Holy Spirit.
Allow God to choose whom He wants to choose.