Acts 19:38 Therefore, if Demetrius and his fellow craftsmen have a case against anyone, the courts are open and there are proconsuls. Let them bring charges against one another.
How often have you jumped in to try and settle an argument only to make things worse than before?
Sometimes it is hard not to get involved, especially when the people involved are close to you; but sometime it is only our job to stand by and offer support.
God does not want us to change the world – He is already doing that and trying to use us in ways we don’t quite understand sometimes.
Allow God to work – don’t cramp His ways!