Romans 14:13 Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling-block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister.
It is so easy to blame someone else when things go wrong instead of admitting that we actually are partly to blame when things go wrong. Well, we are fully to blame in some cases, but then we do have to accept blame then!
We can help and support those around us or we can tell them not to do everything and generally discourage instead of encouraging.
God wants us to build up societies and build up congregations, not to break them down and weed out the bad stuff – that is His domain and not ours! God would rather we make the way for others easier so that they can walk closer to Him!