Proverbs 15:32 Those who disregard discipline despise themselves, but the one who heeds correction gains understanding.
For all those people who constantly disregard any disciple or instructions, to you I ask, who are you actually affecting the most?
It certainly is not the people who try to constantly tell you what you are doing wrong – they will get bored of telling you and you will still be doing it wrong!
If you do have any love, then start loving yourself and listening to those around who are trying to help – yes it may not sound nice, but they may well be your hope!