Romans 8:8 Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.
Whilst we continue to do the same things the people around us are doing and continue to live a life without Christ, we continue to find it very hard to please God.
If we want to please our God then we need to do things which are closer to what He wants in our lives.
He is probably not asking you to give everything up and live in a local church – He is probably asking you to take on board all He is trying to teach you and share it with others to let them know what you now know.
We may live in this world but we do not have to live for the world!