Matthew 18:17 If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.
And if all fails, then finally take it to the church – not public gossip, but the church body you trust!
Gossip breaks apart churches and communities. Re-telling things you have heard from others does nothing but spread gossip.
If you are not willing to do things according to God’s ways, then just being quiet is going to be your best option!