Hebrews 5:8 Son though he was, he learned obedience from what he suffered
Sometimes it is hard for us to obey others, especially when we believe we are in the right and they in the wrong; but obedience needs to be cultivated in all of us.
God alone knows the whole picture and He continues to try and make sure we get to see as much as we need to cope with life and all it throws at us.
But if we choose not to listen to His guidance, then we choose a path of our own; one which will probably end in destruction because of the unseen pitfalls!
Trust in Christ just as He trusted in God!