Luke 5:33 They said to him, ‘John’s disciples often fast and pray, and so do the disciples of the Pharisees, but yours go on eating and drinking.’
OK, how often do you compare what you do as a church to how other churches do it, and how many of those times are you saying “but they don’t do it right!”?
Far too often we try to make the rest of the church/world behave how we want them to behave and not how God wants them to behave.
We use the literal words in the bible to show how others are doing it wrong instead of using what the Holy Spirit wants us to say to them.
Listening to the Holy Spirit is hardest when you are stuck in your own habits!