Psalm 81:6 I removed the burden from their shoulders; their hands were set free from the basket.
If you will allow God to work in your life, you too will notice how He will lift the burden off of your shoulders and allow you to put down the things which are holding you back!
It is hard to let go and allow God to have a go in your life, but that is sometimes exactly what we must do. Stop trying to carry the burdens. Stop trying to pick up the dead weight.
God wants us to be free so we can work effectively for Him and not be weighed down by worldly things all the time...