Isaiah 50:10 Who among you fears the Lord and obeys the word of his servant? Let the one who walks in the dark, who has no light, trust in the name of the Lord and rely on their God.
Who is it you listen to? Do you listen to the words your church leader tells you or do you like to make your own mind up?
If we find it hard to trust in what other people say, then we must listen to and obey what God has to say.
God uses people to try and get through to us all the time, we should try to listen to them comparing what they say with what God has said...