2 Timothy 2:23 Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.
We all know how stupid words or arguments will produce even bigger arguments, distrust and distress with all involved – but we all continue to say stupid things!
If we had a little person sitting on our shoulders whispering into our ears when we are about to do or say stupid things, we would get into a lot less trouble...
If we are willing to allow God to guide us, we have that person on our shoulders every minute of every day – just listen!