Romans 2:1 You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things.
How many times have you told someone they need to forgive and forget, then go home and get mad at someone else for not doing things?
If we could be honest with ourselves all the time, we would let go of the things we hold on to and forgive ourselves as well as forgiving others.
Yes, we do have to forgive ourselves just as we do forgive others. Without that, we hold on to the very things we try to let go of...