Mark 10:41 When the ten heard about this, they became indignant with James and John.
How do you treat someone who has just been caught out doing something wrong? Do you call them names for being stupid, or support and encourage them?
It is very easy to join in with everyone else and blame the people who have done wrong for what happens. It is harder to try and support them in recovering from their mistakes.
Jesus did not sit back and blame people; He stepped forward and tried to help people to change their ways and to live for God!