Psalm 119:22 Remove from me reproach and contempt, for I have kept Your testimonies.
Even though we read God’s Word and try to understand it, we are still who we are, we are still human beings.
When other people get on our nerves, we get upset. When other people work against us, we get down and resentment starts creeping in.
God has required of us that we love our enemies. That is a very hard thing to come to terms with as human beings. But when we give our situations to God, He can change our hearts to give us room for love when we cannot find any.
Allow God to change your heart when you cannot.