1 Thessalonians 5:11 Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
And sometimes, just sometimes, you get things right! It may seem like that at times but we make good choices all the time in our lives and we need to recognise that fact!
We can take great encouragement from good choices and from results that turn out well; so let us focus on those things and those times to enlighten our lives.
Our God has shown us just how much He loves us and He continues to want us to be blessed by the things He does in our lives. If we do not count those blessings we will never be pleased!