Ephesians 6:4 And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.
How many people thought this was saying bring up your children to love God; or is it just me and my bad English?
God warns us not to do things and we need to bring our children up knowing those things and knowing that God is a God of wrath and not just lovey dovey things!
True love comes from being just and fair. Hiding justice does not show love but encourages deceit.
We need to make sure our children know justice but not through our anger and strife; through God’s justice.