Luke 11:9 So I say to you: ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
Unless we ask for help others may not know we are in need of help.
There is no crime in asking for help and no judgement should be given against someone asking for help.
God wants to be able to help us all the time, maybe we just need to acknowledge Him as the potential giver!