Galatians 5:17 For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that you do not do the things that you wish.
We have ways in which we like to work and ways in which we like to play; these ways do not always line up with God’s ways!
Our ways are probably more in line with the desires that we have in our lives rather than the needs we have in our lives. If we allow those desires to have their way instead of our needs then we allow the worldly ways to come first.
God wants us to follow His ways which He teaches us through love and through the Holy Spirit as He guides us through His Word.
Allow God greater freedom in your life!