Psalm 139:23 Search me, O God, and know my heart; Try me, and know my anxieties;
Have you ever offered to help someone and then regretted it because they actually want you to do more than you thought?
When you offer to help someone it should be an open offer that you are willing to extend and not one bound by a rigid unloving contract.
Marrying someone with a contract sitting over you is not really marrying someone for love…
God would like us to love Him openly and be willing to extend our love. He will require more of us than we thought because He actually knows how much has to be done – unlike us!