Exodus 4:12 Now therefore, go, and I will be with your mouth and teach you what you shall say.
If God wanted to control everything we do and say I think He would have chosen just about anyone to lead the children of Israel. Instead, he chose Moses for a reason.
God would like to be in control of your life but He is not going to the puppet master and leave you to be the puppet!
God needs us to be who we are and to live as we do, He just wants us to listen to His will so we can live the best way possible.
Give God the honour and glory by allowing Him to guide you every step forward.