Psalm 88:3: For my soul is full of troubles; my life draws near to the land of death.
What do you do when things go wrong in your life? Do you just sit there and accept things? Do you rebel and try to change things? Or do you stop to ask God - why?
God wants us to be in a relationship with him. This means we should be able to stop and talk to him, to ask him why things are the way they are. We should also be willing to stop and listen for an answer.
We may not get an audible voice shouting the answer so everyone can hear - God may be trying to whisper something in your ear.
This means we should be willing to be quiet, still and patient so we can hear an answer when he does show us an answer in whatever form that comes!