1 Timothy 1:5 The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.
When Christ told us to love our neighbours as ourselves it was a commandment with meaning; we do need to love people but with a true heart!
God’s love for us is true and without reserve; our love for others should be based on the same principals. Just saying you love someone because God said so is not good enough!
Picking out the pretenders who say one thing and do another can be difficult, but that is what we join into when we do not love with an honest heart.