Ephesians 5:9 (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth),
The one thing that we can be sure of is a change of attitude when we put our faith and trust in Christ alone.
When we continue to grasp at what the world can offer or continue to follow worldly ways then we will find that others will see the world through us and not see the fruits of the Spirit.
If we want the fruits of the Spirit to show then we have to make sure that God has room to work in our lives; that we are not pushing Him out and favouring the ways of the world!