Ephesians 4:2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
God is the one who does know what is best for each of us and He will try to direct us toward that goal so that we can achieve the best for us and Him. So where do we start?
Well, the starting point for anything with God is to stop and listen. Just stop being so involved with your own ways and listen to God.
While we are so focused on doing our own thing or doing what we think God or the church wants, or doing things the way we have always done, we are not listening properly to what God may want in our lives!